婚姻。再婚？

什么山盟海誓

什么天长地久

只在乎曾经拥有。

我们对

再婚的看法

是如何呢？

婚姻是一生一世相伴的承诺， 一辈子的伴侣关系，坚贞不移的夫妻情份， 不论在健康或疾病中 。

这是母亲得知已故好友的丈夫再婚，所写的...

...为她不值...

新婚夫妇在上帝的见证下，对彼此许下誓言。

男人没有女人不能活吗？

再婚，

那么过去的婚姻呢？

或许世上真的没有所谓绝对的事，

无常...

我们还是必须接受，

虽然不认同。

尽管如此

自己的生活，

生命中的绝对，

是自己所能够掌握的。

放眼天下

还是有许多刻骨铭心

的爱情故事。

我们心中的绝对

就放在自己心中，

设在自己的生命中，

哪管得了他人的啦。

:)

给22岁的自己

20101007庆生

22岁的我
我的生日愿望很简单：

告别过去
努力成为最好的我
就像《最好的我》歌词里所写的...

人生的起落
我都要看透；
不管风吹雨打
我坚定的毅力
让我更有勇气
朝梦想前进。

有些话
是每年的这一天都要对她说的：
怀胎十月
把我生下。
分娩的痛
非可想而知。

谢谢您妈妈

全心全意
奋斗
是为实现父母的盼望，
报答父母的抚养，
更是放眼未来
我的责任。

最好的我
相信我能够做到！

My Birthday 2010

20101007

*Joel, the photographer. Thanks :)
22 y.o. birthday in Amalfi Italian Restaurant

The pasta I ordered, seafood pasta. Not bad but it's too salty to me.

*The dishes in the restaurant are quite salty and the waiter is unfriendly. I think we won't consider to go to the restaurant anymore.

Thanks my friends for celebrating my birthday and thanks for the wishes :)
The "surprise" birthday cake from my housemate TKS is nice too ^^

Thanks my friends who remember my birthday and wished me ^^ (though it is not stated in the Facebook reminder; purposely did, for this year :p)

Appreciate ~~

人本来就寂寞的...吗？

人本来就寂寞的...

这句话对吗？

为何我时常觉得如此... ...

我文静不多话，
内心的挣扎又有谁知。

争执，
事后往往觉得自己有些过分。
真的好难控制自己的怪脾气
时不时就会有许多的不满，
或许我必须学会看得开，
学会忍气吞声。

其实我最讨厌争执了
我时常都是“输家”
因为我太“好心”了。

到头来
气
还不是我自己受
何苦。

认清自己，
接受他人。
那么我不入地狱谁入地狱。
或许这句话有些重
但却很深深的刻在我内心；
我可以舍己为人，
不求回报，
但不代表这些都是理所当然，
其实我更希望礼尚往来。

烦
有什么用，
都不能解决事情...

使眼色，
是因为我还蛮讨厌
人们往往所谓的玩笑是某人心中的痛。
坏话当玩笑也就算了，
至少他听不到。

私底下
告劝他不是更好吗。

你说自欺的人最可怜
但有人就是如此容忍对方，
甚至成就对方。

好无奈
知己难寻。

尽管如此
你不时的寒暄
我还是感受到的。
我不会完全的去讨厌一个人
因为我知道
人都是不完美的
我自己的种种缺点
我也清楚。

我会尝试改进，
尝试寻找突破。

感谢你
朋友。

101010 - The day we moved out

Finally we found a new place for staying, on the day, such significant date -- 101010 :)

However, the owner is still staying there until end of this week, so we just moved our stuff and gathered them in the big room, and stay in friend's place for a few days.

Hopefully nothing goes wrong and we shall stay in the new place and won't have to move again coz, it was really lotz of work... ... troublesome.

Anyway, if we found a cheaper place, we shall reconsider... hehe, indecisive...

My new blog

The new blog is for sharing my views while the current blog is still active to write about mainly the voice of my heart.

If u find some of the old posts are missing, they are moved to the new blog and more will be moved.
Check it out :)
http://isee-ishare.blogspot.com/

New blog to be created

I have decided to create a new blog which contains the things I want to share, separate those posts from my current "diary". Some of the posts from current blog will be moved to the new one :)

Then I shall make the current blog more private as the current blog now is searchable.

My birthday... soon :)

I think my facebook wall won't have uncountable birthday wishes on this year... lol. It's because I purposely don't show my birthday in my profile.

I wonder if any friend really remember my birthday... maybe... none??

Well, there are really lots of things to be busy with in this week (even on my birthday as I have to clear my room, according the order from the new owner) and coming weeks... rework classes, and even moving into a new apartment...

We still haven't found a suitable apartment yet, hopefully the owners that we have contacted, reply us.

The reason to shift: The house owner have decided to sell the unit and the new owner will live in the unit and moving in soon.

We are indeed that unlucky... hopefully we can find a better apartment with better owner and not moving again until we graduate as moving is really troublesome!

Amitabha.

We pray, that we can find the new apartment before 12 Oct, the due date...

My new phone: Sony Ericsson Xperia X10

It has been nearly a month since I bought the phone. Overall I like the phone because it is Android :D
The specs are a bit lower than other phones of the same category. I bought X10 just because it is cheaper.
I have considered Nokia N900 but I didn't bought it because I want an Android phone.
N900 is a great phone with high RAM, ROM and internal memory although processor speed is 600Mhz, it is sufficient for the OS Maemo 5. The OS is complicated but it is quite free without much restriction although the choice of applications is limited unlike Android with abundant applications in Android market.

Using X10, I realize that it is really laggy, and lacked of many function that other 1ghz Android phone acquired. I should have buy N900 if I don't have the budget for a better Android phone... ... am i regretting??

While waiting for the upgrade, hoping for the better change, now I still have to wait:
http://blogs.sonyericsson.com/products/2010/05/05/sony-ericsson-xperia%E2%84%A2-x10-to-get-uxp-upgrade-in-q4-2010/
The upgrade to Android 2.1 has been delayed... Last time it said in the end of September, now end of October. Luckily I just bought the phone, so I won't have to wait for that pretty long for the update.
However, I still hope there will be update to Android 2.2, but it seems not so possible...

Android 3.0 has become a miracle, according to this blog post:
http://xperia-x1.com/xperia-x10-could-stop-at-android-2-2/
I was thinking that the phone is good enough for the later upgrades of Google Android...
Sigh... it seems so impossible. Sony Ericsson is still... disappointing.

Forget about it, I think I should cherish for I have a smartphone :D My first smartphone.

 Stylish :)

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2010年 中秋月

The 2 best photos from my trial shootout with...

Sony Ericsson Xperia X10i :D

at the night of 中秋节 aka Mid Autumn (Mooncake Festival)

on 22 September 2010.